“Never aim to become good, focus how not to turn into bad.”
We all have goals. Some goals are time specific, some interest specific or some might also be specifically not that specific! But have you ever thought about your ultimate goal? Earning money is one thing, leaving aside those monetary aspects, what do you think is important to achieve in Life?
Becoming a good person, if not throughout the lifespan but at least in the last innings!
Correct. In fact, even if you have this thought in mind, then you are one of a good human being. So, congratulations!!!
How to become a ‘good person’ will be discussed in the next post. Make sure you read that!!
Here, talking about how not to be Bad. We’ll be going step-by-step on the ladder of turning yourself into a “Good Person”.
Don’t you think that we react a lot and that too when it’s not even needed? Yes, we do!!
Control your reactions!
And, yes reactions and not your expressions. If you think that you hurt somebody then do try to erase your reactions from their life by your colourful and real expressions. It’s very important to be real, don’t pretend that you are full of sunshine when internally you feel like crying or screaming. Do react but first wait for the right time, take a deep breath and… express!!
The three line mantra, one should always keep in mind…
Look at time,
And, express out.
Never feel guilty to take the blame on your shoulders for your wrong deeds. It’s okay. Every action is not right.
Always try to erase your incorrect reactions by not repeating them again in future. After all, a time machine is not yet come into existence!
All you need to do is learn to use ‘Deeds’ Eraser’. Luckily we all have got it’s instruction manual. Where?
Sit for a while, relax and think “HOW”!! Your mind and heart will give you the answers. The eraser will surely not be able to erase your bad actions but it will help you to fade them away (the way a normal eraser works, there will be consequences. Every eraser is not a non-dust! ;P ) with time and eventually, you’ll learn ‘How not to be Bad’!